MOSAIC MOMENTS

As you all know I have been crazy busy planning for our upcoming conference! I wanted to give y’all some important info so you don’t miss out. 

First of all, Next Friday, June 19th is the deadline for reserving your hotel room. We got a great room block at the Sheraton Cincinnati North Hotel & Indoor Water Resort. It is only $105 per night and for $12 per person you can enter the water park. You can book your hotel by going to our website. 

The conference registration deadline is Friday, June 26. After this, the fees will increase. You can register at our website.

Finally, please see below our press release. If you have a blog or an email list, please post this information for others to see. We are very excited to bring this to everyone and we would hate for anyone who would benefit from this conference to miss out!

See you in just a couple of weeks in Cincinnati!!

 
Keynote Speaker Congresswoman Cathy McMorris Rogers with husband and newborn son w/DS,  Cole

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE-June 11, 2009

Parents of children with Down syndrome (DS) are universally concerned about the wellbeing of their child’s health, future, and ability to connect with other DS families.  The Down Syndrome Association of Greater Cincinnati (DSAGC) hosts “Building Bridges for Down Syndrome”: the fourth biennial research and awareness conference presented by the International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association (IMDSA).

The term Down syndrome (DS) was named after Dr. Langdon Down, a British doctor who first described the condition in 1887.  This year marks the 50^th Anniversary of the discovery of the extra 21^st chromosome that causes Down syndrome.  DS is a genetic condition that occurs in one in every eight-hundred (800) births.  There are four types of Down syndrome:  Trisomy-21, Translocation, Mosaic, and Mosaic-Translocation. 

The Down syndrome community has leapt many hurdles in paving the way for future generations, but there is still a lot of work to do.  The attendees of this biennial research and awareness conference are empowered with information, hope for the future of all individuals with DS, and are given the opportunity to participate in various research studies being conducted onsite during the conference.  Teens and adults with DS, along with their siblings, will learn everything from how to manage a budget to relationships and friendships in the “Teen and Adult Conference.”  Children ages 2-12 with DS along with their siblings, will learn a variety of subjects: Acting and Puppetry to Bullying to Stranger Danger in the “Kid Konference.”  Students interested in professional careers pertaining to DS will supervise these youngsters; giving them a better understanding of what DS really means for these individuals.  Together, families and professionals will enjoy the “Friday Night Family Reunion & Silent Auction” with entertainment from The Amazing Portable Circus and self-advocates Sujeet Desai, Tim Colvin, and Casey Morton.

Some attendees of the 2007 conference held in Richmond, VA said, “At the IMDSA’s Conference, there’s a sense of family the moment you step through the doors, everyone is welcoming.  I’ve learned so many things from all the speakers!” 

Join IMDSA and DSAGC Friday, July 10 through Sunday, July 12 at the Sheraton Cincinnati North Hotel and Indoor Water Resort in Sharonville, Ohio for a fully scheduled weekend of information, family fun, socialization, and entertainment by Sujeet Desai, Dan Kulp, Tim Colvin, and Casey Morton.  Over 30 experts will discuss various topics that will beneficial to the betterment of all families of children and adults with DS.  This is a life-span conference with topics pertaining to all ages of people with DS.  Researchers and professionals will also benefit greatly by attending.  There will be many great activities, workshops, and sharing of information.  A sure highlight of the weekend will be the “Family Awards and Celebration Banquet and Dance” with self-advocate Jennifer Katz and comedian/musician Dan Kulp. 

Reservations are filling fast and space is limited, so register and reserve your spot today!  For more information on how to register, visit www.imdsa.org

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The International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association (IMDSA) provides support, information, and research to any family, individual, or professional whose life has been affected by mosaic Down syndrome. Its Research & Awareness Conference provides support, information and research to all forms of Down syndrome.

Contact:

Kristy Colvin

IMDSA President

Email: president@imdsa.org

Toll free:  1-888-MDS-LINK

Web:  www.imdsa.org

Sometimes there are some advantages to having A.D.D. I tend to hop from one place to another when I am looking for something online and just like when you go to the store for one thing and come out with a special treasure you never knew even existed, most of the time when I am surfing on the web, I often find a special treasure here and there that I never knew was even there!

Just recently, I happened upon such a treasure and if you are a parent of a child with Down syndrome or Autism or any learning disability or developmental delay, I think you will agree that this is a fantastic find! Over the weekend, I had the opportunity to talk on the phone to the founder of Get IEP Help, Yael Cohen, and we had a great conversation about all that Yael does to help parents understand the whole IEP process.

Yael says,  “When things just aren’t going so well with your child at school, you want to know why, what to do, and how to get it. I have over 30 years experience doing just that. Along with helping parents successfully advocate for their children’s educational needs, I also directly help children with learning challenges to read, spell, and learn other academic skills and strategies. I have a B.A. in Speech Pathology and an M.A. in Special Education, with an extensive background in reading, math, and writing instruction. Parents like you seek me out for my expertise, but also because I can help you not only figure out what will work for your child, but where you find the local resources. I am a true believer that your child deserves a great education. With the right kind of instruction, every child can learn - yours included. In my spare time, I enjoy the gorgeous Colorado mountains. I have adult twin children, who finally(!) sleep through the night, and I live in Boulder, Colorado. I look forward to assisting you and your child.”

She has a great deal of information available at your fingertips on her website  and she offers FREE TELESEMINARS ,(next one this Tuesday!) a FREE PHONE CONSULTATION, several books and products to help you with IEP’s and help you with your child’s learning problems,  and if you need a little extra help, Yael will help you with that Second Opinion . As a professional she can help you with your IEP and take some of the anxiety and tears away!

Consider this….

Does your meeting seem like Debra’s in Florida?

“I sat in that IEP meeting with my heart throbbing.  There were at least a dozen people, most of whom I had never met, sitting on the other side of the table, telling me about my child’s numbers.  They kept smiling at me while they spoke ― mostly in what sounded like Greek.

“They gave me lots of papers and told me I should sign.  Although they said I’m their partner, I seemed to be the only one who didn’t speak Greek or understand what the numbers meant.   I was still trying to grasp what they said about something being wrong with my child.  They asked me questions, but didn’t ask more about my suggestions or write down what I said.  I thought I knew my child, but suddenly, at that meeting, I felt stupid and left out.”

Or , does your IEP meeting seem more like Susan’s, in Colorado?

Susan’s son, Doug, was so learning disabled, that in the spring of his first grade year, he could not read anything, not even his name!  He cried in class when the teacher said, “You don’t really need my help!

You can do it if you try.

“Nightly, Doug confided to his mom, Susan, that he was clearly the stupidest kid in 1st grade.  Finally, the school agreed to test Doug. Susan was both anxious and excited on the way to the first IEP meeting. She thought that for sure the school would figure out what Doug’ problems were and how to solve them.

“Susan was in shock as the meeting unfolded.  The school team used gigantic words that she didn’t understand and kept spewing out numbers that made little sense.  They blamed her for the fact that Doug couldn’t read and even suggested a change in visitation between her and Doug’s dad.  In her gut, little that they said felt right to her. 

“Over and over, the staff kept asking Susan to trust them and to sign the forms. But when she asked what they would be doing to help Doug, the answers were again full of foreign-sounding words and numbers. She refused to sign.  Instead, Susan took the paperwork home and tried to do some quick research on the internet, but there was just too much she didn’t understand.  In tears, she called an old friend of hers who had help from an advocate for her child.”

Here’s what Susan said afterwards…

“It was just what I needed.  Yael, the advocate my friend recommended, explained everything to me in plain English, showed me what the testing meant, and analyzed the IEP (Individual Education Plan) document for me, letting me know which parts made sense and which parts did not.  She asked me questions and offered solutions.

She gave me a plan to follow for the next meeting and then convinced the school to use a research-based reading program for Doug.  She helped us to find a dyslexia specialist to help him outside of school.  She is a walking encyclopedia, who gave us so many resources!

Over time, Yael has taught us how to advocate effectively for our child.  No longer do I feel stupid in the meetings about my son.  And on top of that, my son now is a avid reader!  I’m really excited she’s offering these online conferences for parents, because all parents of kids with special needs to know the secrets of how to get through!

You Don’t Want To Miss This Online Conference: How To Sign Up

Go Now To www.GetIEPHelp.com/spedteleseminars.html and Register for Free Online Seminars for Parents of Kids With Learning Challenges.

This week’s online/phone seminar on Tuesday is on How To Break Down Academic (and

Household) Tasks So That Your Child Can Learn How To Do Them.  To sign up for this and other Get IEP Help free online parent seminars, go to:  www.GetIEPHelp.com/spedteleseminars.html

When you get the conference info, you’ll also get a link to the last online conference Yael did, which is free online for just a few more days.  You’ll also have an opportunity to ask a question for this conference.

What Else You Can Discover:

You might want to check out Yael’s other services while you’re on www.GetIEPHelp.com  –  She offers a whole “Get IEP Help System” which helps you do it yourself, 2nd Opinions on your upcoming or last IEP,

and even a super online reading program for beginning or struggling readers.

Folks, it doesn’t have to be that bad – check it out today!

 Please check out Yael’s website by clicking here.

In 2007, International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association was approached by the writer/producer of the movie Mr. Blue Sky. Mr. Blue Sky is a wonderful movie about three children (2 girls and 1 boy) who grow up together and face the obstacles that most children grow up with. One of the girls in this movie has Down syndrome.

In the first of the movie, the boy’s mother kills herself. However we don’t really know why until the end of the movie. Because of this, the boy’s father (played by Home Improvement/Family Feud- Richard Karn) becomes an alcoholic.

As they grow up, the boy and the girl (without Ds) (played by Mary Kate Schellhardt) start dating but they really have too many differences to make it together. Then, the boy (played by the late Chaney Kley) winds up falling in love with the girl with Ds (played by Ashley Wolfe) and despite a lot of contriversy they wind up getting married.

IMDSA has been a major supporter of this movie from the beginning of its release. Although many feel as though this is unrealistic, we at IMDSA know that it is very possible for individuals with Down syndrome to marry individuals without Down syndrome because it happens within our community of mosaic Down syndrome quite often. (just ask Casey and Jennifer ) 

You can purchase this DVD and see trailers of the movie by clicking here.

So….. our BIG NEWS  for the day.

I just got a message from Tom Lee-the writer/producer of Mr. Blue Sky

Kareem Dale, the Special Assistant to US President Obama for Disability Policy will be traveling to Serbia on June 10th. The living conditions for people with Down syndrome in Serbia is horrible with the life expectancy of these individuals only reaching 10 years old. It is because of the attitudes of those with disabilities that these individuals are placed in institutions with deplorable conditions and left to die.

It is Mr. Dale’s hope that by showing this movie to the government officials in Serbia, perspectives will change. They will see that individuals with Down syndrome are just like everyone else. They can grow up to be wonderful members of the society and add great value to their communities.

Our movie is truly making the difference that it was created for! To show everyone that people with Down syndrome have the same hopes, the same dreams, the same ambitions and with acceptance, they can reach those dreams and goals! It is just a matter of letting them do what everyone else does and not holding them back from all the can accomplish!

This is a huge step in the right direction and I pray that the government of Serbia can change their perspectives, even just a little, and realize that people with Down syndrome are PEOPLE!

Tonight is the night! We have been waiting about a year for this day to arrive and it is finally here! Tonight at 10pm EST on Mystery Diagnosis we will have a small part of telling others about mosaic Down syndrome! This is a huge step for International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association as we will be able to reach so many more families whose children have mosaic Down syndrome and do not know that we are here to provide them with the support, information and research that we work so hard to provide to everyone!

Special Thanks goes to Holly Hannum for telling her daughter, Hannah Hannum’s story of being diagnosed with Myelodysplastic syndrome.(MDS) and later mosaic Down syndrome (mDs). Also, special thanks to Sue Johnson for offering her daughter Isabella to play the part of young Hannah! Not many times on Mystery Diagnosis do you get the opportunity to have 2 individuals with the same diagnosis and both were diagnosed later in life. These families did a great job of telling the story and if there is anything left out we will totally leave that in the hands of editing at the Discovery Health Channel.

If you would like to discuss this story after the show, I will be on Twitter (if I can figure it out enough! lol) You can find me on twitter by just clicking the box to the left of this post that says “follow” on Twitter.  To find out more and read more stories look below.

On April 6, 2009 the American station, Discovery Health, highlights one of our families’ stories on Mystery Diagnosis. Hannah Hannum is one of thousands of individuals with mosaic Down syndrome who was diagnosed later in life.

The average age for individuals to be diagnosed with mosaic Down syndrome is 1-4 years of age. The most common reason for this late diagnosis is the lack of knowledge in the medical field on this rare form of Down syndrome. However, many individuals can go undiagnosed up into adulthood and there are still thousands who never receive a diagnosis.

For more information on mosaic Down syndrome please visit our FAQ’s of MDS

If you feel that you or a loved one may have mosaic Down syndrome, please contact us and we will be happy to answer your questions.

We invite you to meet some of our families who have received this diagnosis later in life.

Meet Hannah diagnosed at age 3*

Meet Isabella diagnosed at age 10 months*

Meet Ryan diagnosed at age 3

Meet Allison diagnosed at age 5

Meet Tim diagnosed at age 2

Meet Christina diagnosed at age 25

Meet Rachel diagnosed at age 6 months

Meet Emily diagnosed at age 18 months

Meet Aidan diagnosed at age 2

*featured on Mystery Diagnosis

International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association provides support, information and research to all individuals and families touched by mosaic Down syndrome. IMDSA is a nonprofit organization, and is dependent completely upon generous donations to continue its mission of helping families and individuals with MDS. All donations are tax-deductible to the fullest extent of the law.

Today was the beginning of a huge change in life as we know it! Years ago, I don’t really know when or how it happened, but all of the sudden someone finally said that it was WRONG to say the “N” word. Someone said, “Hey! That’s just not very nice!” Someone said “Enough is Enough!” And when that person began to spread around that using the “N” word was hurtful and demeaning and racist and wrong, people eventually caught on and decided that they too would no longer use that word anymore.

Now I am not naive enough to think that no one uses it. In fact, I know that many still do. But it is under hushed breath or spoken by the ones who were first called that hateful word and I suppose if you were the target of the word, then it is your prerogative to use it or not. However, I never-not even once-used that word and when I heard others use it, even as a small child, something in my heart broke and I felt very sad that people used the word at all!

So, today, is the beginning of a new era! Today, like so many years ago, people throughout the nation and throughout the world stood up and said, “Enough is Enough!” When a person uses the “R” word it is hurtful and demeaning and racist and wrong! Today people took that stand and from now on, people will continue to take the stand. 

And, today, as a person part of that movement, I want to challenge YOU!

Spread The Word To End The Word

When someone uses the “r” word, tell them why it hurts. Tell them that it is wrong. Tell them ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Tell them that THEY can be part of history! And, then, Tell them to pass it on!

To find out more about this campaign click here .

Many people have asked about what they can do with their children during the Down Syndrome Research & Awareness Conference in Cincinnati in July. International Mosaic Down Syndrome Association holds a very special Kid Konference for children ages 2-12 and Youth Conference for ages 13-adult.

When we first began our conferences back in 2004, we saw two needs that needed to be filled.

First, our parents and family members needed to be able to listen to workshop presenters, and ask questions that are sometimes difficult and uncomfortable in front of children. These families needed to be able to relax and not worry about what their children were doing and that they were safe. And, the children didn’t need to be bored during these hours the parents were away.

The second need that we saw was that geneticists, teachers, nurses, doctors and therapists were learning only the basics in their schooling about Down syndrome and very few had even heard about mosaic Down syndrome. These students were only learning what their books told them and they didn’t have a real perspective on what it truly meant to have extra chromosomes for the family and for the individual.

So, we combined these needs and developed our Kid Konference. Children ages 2-12 with Down syndrome, mosaic Down syndrome and their siblings are divided into three age groups. 2-5, 6-9 and 10-12. Within these groups, we invite students who are learning in a field that will put them in places where children with Down syndrome and mosaic Down syndrome will be. We do background checks on each student to ensure the children’s safety and the students supervise the children on Saturday and Sunday during their workshops. This enables students to learn what it really means to have Down syndrome or mosaic Down syndrome and gives them hands on experience with the children. Every student who attends this program also is allowed to attend the workshops of their choice to further enhance their careers and each receive a certificate of participation at the end of the conference. Every student who has attended this program has said that it has truly changed their lives and it is something that they will always remember.

Currently, we are still working on finalizing this schedule for our Kid Konference and each presentation will be geared towards the age group. But to give you a good idea about what is in store for the children, we are planning on the following topics:

• Music Therapy & Fun
• Art Lesson (will be displayed at banquet)
• Yoga for Kids
• Karate Moves for Fun
• Sports
• Everyone Can Cook
• What to do about Strangers
• How to deal with Bullies
• Tumble Bus
• Magician
• Clown
• Coloring with Coco the Bird (The Coco Keys Water Resort Mascot)

I hope this gives you a good idea about the Kid Konference! The cost is only $10 per child and this includes 2 snacks on Saturday and 1 snack on Sunday. 

Early Registration ends on Tuesday, March 31st!  After this prices for the main conference will go up. For more information on this and how to register, click here.

Tomorrow I will give you a little insight on what to expect for the Youth Conference!

When you are told that your child has Down syndrome or mosaic Down syndrome you immediately form an image in your mind. It could be a child you saw in school or down the street from your house that had special needs. Maybe you saw a TV show or movie about Down syndrome and that was your image. Or, maybe you had some medical background and you thought about all that you had read up on the subject. Whatever it was, I think everyone does form an image, and in most cases you discover that that image in your mind was completely opposite of the person your child has become.

For me, I imagined Scott. Scott was a boy in my elementary school who had some sort of delay that impaired his ability to communicate articulately and he had braces on his legs that clanged when he walked. Scott was unable to learn the way my other classmates learned and he invariably could not close his mouth completely which was unsightly during lunch. But these were not the things that bothered me about Scott at all. What bothered me is that his parents dressed him in black dress slacks, a white button up shirt complete with a plastic pocket protector for his pens, black dress shoes and black-framed eye glasses that slid down his nose despite the large roll of tape fastened to the middle. To me and my classmates, Scott was different because he dressed differently than the rest of us. If it were not for his clothes, we probably would have accepted him much easier.

So, my first thought, silly as it may sound, was that Tim would never dress differently than his peers!

But I know that many had other thoughts in their mind. Other fears that were unfounded later on. So, today, please share what those fears were. What did you worry about after you were told your child had Down syndrome or mosaic Down syndrome and what made you realize that those concerns were only because of the image you had formed in your mind?

As parents of children with Down syndrome or mosaic Down syndrome we often worry about so many things when they are first diagnosed. Yesterday, I asked what your biggest concern was when your child was first diagnosed. Most of the comments on this question were united in that they worried more about themselves instead of their child’s condition. I thought that was an interesting take on things, but not at all wrong!

When you first have a child, any child, your whole entire life turns around! All of the sudden you are completely responsible for this tiny life and your parenting instincts come into play. However, when you have never had a child before, this can be a very scary experience and it really doesn’t matter if they child has Down syndrome or not! In these instances from our readers these children were their first born. (to the best of my knowledge) So, of course they were worried about how having this child was going to change their life! And, when you add “Dr. I have bad news” into the equation, you are more than likely going to worry all the more! You worry about how it is going to affect your lifestyle. I think the biggest thing that comes to mind is that you wonder if you will have to make changes to the way you live. The answer is in some ways Yes and in some ways No. 

Yes, because you will find that when you have a child, any child, you can no longer jump up at 11pm and say, “Hey, lets go out!” Because with any child, every trip is a planned process of packing half their life into a diaper bag, and still planning around naps, feeding, sickness, weather, etc. And, yes, your life does change when you have a child with any special needs, because you do a few things differently than you would a child without special needs. You may have more doctor appointments. Your child may need therapy to help with developmental delays. You wind up learning a whole new language that only other parents of children with special needs understands! You almost always have a medical degree equivalent to at least an MD, just without the shiny certificate hanging on the wall. Instead, your shiny certificate is that beautiful picture painted, drawn, colored or scribbled that adorns your refrigerator door.

And then, the answer is also No. No because you learn that Life Goes On! And, because no matter what, your child is a child first! Your child will still be mischievous and get into trouble even though they knew better to do what ever it was they ventured out to do. Your child will still smile and laugh and love you unconditionally just like any other child. Your child will frustrate you, worry you, scare you, make you happy, make you proud, and make you wonder what you ever did without them!

I have five sons. Each are a challenge in their own way. And, each have made me angry, embarrassed, sad, frustrated, happy, and extremely proud. 

Is it different to have a child with Down syndrome or mosaic Down syndrome compared to having a child without extra chromosomes? Yes! It is different for sure! But different does not mean worse!

It is hard to believe that we have been planning for our Down Syndrome Research & Awareness Conference  for ten months now! No wonder I am so tired!

On April 1, 2009, the conference registration prices will go up. Not considerably so, but this is our early registration deadline and the price will change. 

Many ask, how much it cost to attend the conference.  Well, it depends on how many you have coming with you!

If you register before March 31 and you are a member of IMDSA, the registration for the main conference is less expensive than those who are not members. However, you can become a member for only $25 and this will give you a free subscription to our quarterly newsletter MOSAIC WORLD that is packed with information pertaining to not only mosaic Down syndrome but also Down syndrome. These articles are all very helpful in raising your child no matter how old or young they are. You also will receive discounts such as this and our information packet full of info and inspiration. If you wish to become a member, even for the discount, that is ok with us! You can click here for more details. 

To register, click here for details.

We realize that many people are struggling right now to make ends meet and we want more than anything for you to be able to attend this conference! We are, doing all we can to help make it as easy and affordable as possible.  To make this easier, we have compiled a list of possible organizations that may help you attend the conference. Don’t be shy about this! Many organizations have funds set aside to help you attend conferences such as ours! So, please utilize this list!

IMDSA is offering two (2) conference scholarships to IMDSA members. Please click here for more details.

DSAGC is offering scholarships to families in their immediate area to attend this conference. Please click here for more details.

There are many organizations that have funds set aside to help families like yours attend conferences that will enhance your parenting to your child with special needs. If you live within the United States of America please click these agencies below and ask them if they have financial assistance available to help your family attend this conference.

Down Syndrome Associations

The Lion’s Club

The ARC

United Way

Developmental Disabilities Council

Yellow Pages for Kids

If you live outside of the United States and have a current VISA or Passport contact the following organizations and ask them if they have financial assistance available to help your family attend this conference.

Down Syndrome Associations

The Lion’s Club

United Way

If you have not yet seen our presenter list you can click here for that.

I am very excited about our upcoming conference and I do hope that I can meet all of you there! If you have any questions, just ask!

Sometimes, you have to just stop and ask yourself,  “Why am I here?” “What am I doing?” “What matters most to me?”.

In the hustle and bustle of our big universe we tend to sometimes overlook the reason we are where we are in the first place. 

What brought you here to my blog?

Do you have a child with a developmental delay? Does your child have Down syndrome? Maybe mosaic Down syndrome? Do you personally have a developmental delay? Or like my good friend Casey says “An Ability”?

What are you doing?

Are you busy moving about from one moment to the next, tirelessly advocating for those who need your help?Are you getting overwhelmed with all the work you do and sometimes feel that no matter what you do, it just isn’t enough? Do you wish that you could just throw in the towel and say, “Let someone else do it!”?

Or maybe you are just starting out and you are confused and wondering what all this means and what the future holds for your child.

What matters to you most?

No matter what brought you here today to my blog, you are here for a reason! Something has brought you here to this place right now. And yes, the big things do matter! They matter a lot! But it is the little things that matter the most. It is the little things that bring tears of joy to our eyes! It is the little things that we all work so hard to accomplish. 

In America, decades ago, the first astronaut walked on the moon. At that moment, he said, “One small step for man. One giant leap for mankind” Those small steps are what matter the most. Those first steps that lead us into independence are what brings a smile upon our faces and tremendous joy to our hearts. 

Today, 22 month old Gideon, made that small step towards independence! 

This is why we are here folks! To share those very special moments that matter the most!

Way to Go Gideon! I can’t wait to see what you’ll do next!